Again this relates to people who are able to take care of themselves, and are able to give a spouce the things they need (comfort, love, etc.). If your not ready for a relationship yet work on yourself!
If you saw yesterdays post 4 ways to marry the wrong person you will (or may have already known) that shared common belief and values is an important part of a good relationship.
Here are two relating factors that should be looked at in a relationship.
1.For some people who are really into a certain thing should look for someone who shares those interest, I remember a friend of mine who has aspergers from YU. He is a big science fiction guy, and I suggested someone who also had an interest in those areas. What he could do is talk to people and ask for someone like he is looking for.
2.Another important thing is to focus on your strengths
I know another guy who is very learned in Jewish Studies, and VERY VERY INTELLEGENT. He was down playing how learned he is (which would be something that would make his awkwardness a little less of an issue in dating, as quite a lot of orthodox Jewish girls would be interested in marrying someone very learned).