A few weeks ago, I was a guest at a Shabbat retreat (called a Shabbaton) at a synagogue near my house. I was invited by an organization called ETTA to experience the community they create for individuals with disabilities.
ETTA was started almost 25 years ago. They have five group homes in the Southern California area and they support activities and events that help individuals learn life skills and build confidence while participating in rewarding job, social, and recreational activities, including summer camps and Shabbat experiences such as the one I attended.
What’s special about ETTA is that the volunteer base for the organization is made up of many teenagers in the community who learn how to serve communities with disabilities. This approach to serving the needs of individuals with disabilities not only helps those in need, but it facilitates a community awareness of differences and raises a generation of teenagers who have learned sensitivity, skills, and compassion in a very meaningful way.
What I saw when I attended the Friday night portion of this Shabbaton was about 50 young adults with special needs accompanied by enthusiastic and supportive teenagers and adults who helped us all come to Shabbat services to pray together. Then we had a festive dinner which started with making the blessings over the wine and grape juice and the challah, and singing songs to welcome Shabbat in together.
There was a variety of young people with disabilities there at various levels of comfort; some were very shy and needed gentle coaxing to participate at their comfort level, and others were very outgoing, ready to answer questions the leaders asked about what’s something they were grateful for and what ETTA has done for their lives. There were some who needed a lot of guidance, and I was especially touched to see teenagers working so tenderly with those participants, speaking to them gently and assessing their comfort as the evening progressed.
I have so many memories of Shabbat dinners at camp which looked a lot like this: an over-excited leader getting everyone in the Shabbat mood who would invariably lose his voice by Saturday night because of his enthusiasm in leading us in song and prayer; the anticipation of what activities would be planned for a group of eager participants all weekend; the undeniably “Jewish” feeling you get when surrounded by a room full of people all singing songs together—even if you don’t know the words, you can “lai-la-lai-lai” along and feel part of something.
It was dinners and weekends like these when I started feeling part of something bigger than myself. They were about identifying something as positive rather than what other people may see as negative. It was finding the uniqueness in my Jewishness in a world and a country that may not always seem like they “get” us. That’s how I remember my camp time and my early experiences with Shabbatons. It’s profound.
And how critically important this is for individuals with special needs in particular, who may be marginalized and rejected by mainstream society or left out of conventional Jewish practice; who look different and act different in ways many of us can’t even fully comprehend.
I am so grateful ETTA and other organizations like ETTA exist; not only for the individuals with disabilities who they serve, but for those of us who get to volunteer, participate in their learning and their joy, and remember again how sweet it is to be loved and included and appreciated—how good and pleasant it is to sit together as part of the same family of humanity as Jews. ETTA has a Gala fundraiser in Los Angeles on December 13. Please consider attending or donating to support their wonderful work. Visit their website http://www.ettagala.org/ for more information.
On the Tonight Show, Jimmy Fallon welcomed kid inventors, one of whom was 16-year-old Sherwood from Ontario, Canada. Sherwood used an air compressor to create a fencing dummy, and while the invention worked, Fallon made quick work of the dummy by knocking its head off with a punch to the face.
Other kid inventions included a slider piano bench, which was created using a go-kart seat and skateboard wheels so that piano players with short arms could reach all the keys.
Perhaps the most impressive kid invention of the night came courtesy of two sisters, Claire and Sadie, from Weare, N.H. Ten-year-old Sadie proved that with the Amazing Curb Climber, nothing could stop her.
“So I have cerebral palsy, which means I have to use a walker. So one day I was at the library. And they have these big steps,” Sadie explained. “And I couldn’t get up because my walker couldn’t climb up curbs or stairs. So I decided to make one that could. And so I did.”
DETROIT -- Ford Motor Co. plans next year to hire an additional 12 to 24 adults with autism, expanding a program with the Autism Alliance of Michigan that has more than 30 other local companies signed on.
The programs are growing quickly. For the companies, people with autism represent untapped talent, and the jobs mean an opportunity to earn a living for those on the spectrum who have typically been left behind.
In June, the automaker launched its pilot program by hiring four adults with autism who have college degrees to work in its product development department at its world headquarters. Those four were on temporary status, but have since been become regular employees at the automaker. Ford originally committed to hiring five employees, but two part-time positions were combined to create one full-time position to accommodate an exemplary candidate.
"When we started, we wanted to make sure we could do this and do it sustainably," said Kirstin Queen, manager of diversity and inclusion at Ford. "The program was found to be very successful, and the supervisors have said these individuals brought a new energy that spread to other employees."
The challenge of employing an adult with autism, while all are different, usually lies in the realm of social interactions. Employees with autism can lack social skills and social imagination and are often brutally honest, which can come across as rudeness.
The program was developed with the Autism Alliance of Michigan, a nonprofit founded by Dave Meador, vice chairman and chief administrative officer at DTE Energy Co. Autism Alliance trained Ford staffers how to interact with their new colleagues with autism, including creating direct, concise job functions as well as understanding the employees' social limitations.
Ford's vehicle evaluation and verification test lab participated in the pilot program, and Ford will expand the new hires into information technology and digital innovation departments, Queen said.
The 60- to 90-day ramp-up process has begun, and the jobs are expected to be filled in January.
The new positions will require a bachelor's degree, as did the previous positions.
Ford receives a federal work opportunity tax credit of $2,400 per adult with autism it hires. That credit, however, does not completely offset the costs of the program, said Colleen Allen, president and CEO of the Autism Alliance.
Since Ford began its program in June, dozens of other companies have sought similar programs through the Autism Alliance. The organization is working with 38 companies, either on creating programs or are already commencing pilot programs.
Allen declined to name the other companies as they navigate through their initial pilot programs, but they include 10 banking and finance firms, seven manufacturing companies, three IT companies and others in different industries.
"The expressed interest has shot through the roof this year," Allen said. "We're definitely ahead of the curve nationally."
Allen said the only limitation is the organizations' ability to keep up with demand. Roughly 200 adults with autism are looking to get placed.
"We're not in a hurry; we're not going to just dump someone in an open position," Allen said. "This is a thoughtful process, and we want to make sure we get it right" to benefit the employee and encourage the company to participate further.
Autism represents a hefty economic question as more and more of those diagnosed reach working age. It's imperative that employers adapt or miss out on a productive population with specialized skills, Allen said.
Autism's costs are growing -- estimated at $268 billion annually in the U.S. on treatment and loss of productivity in 2015, rising to $461 billion, or 1 percent of U.S. gross domestic product, by 2025, according to a 2015 study by researchers at the University of California-Davis and the University of Denver. Diabetes and attention deficit and hyperactivity disorder are the only diseases that cost more than autism, and neither generally prevents people who have them from working.
In the U.S., it's estimated that more than 3.5 million people and one in 68 children (one in 42 for boys) being born have autism spectrum disorder — a complex brain condition associated with poor communication skills — according to a 2014 Centers for Disease Control and Prevention study. In Michigan, the state estimates there are 50,000 or more adults with autism, and growing.
It's called a spectrum because the symptoms can range from not understanding nonverbal communication, to lack of empathy, to obsessive-compulsive behavior, to never speaking. Less-severe cases are often called Asperger's syndrome, but many experts no longer use that term.
More than half of people diagnosed with autism have average to above-average intelligence, according to a 2014 study.
Companies are becoming more aware of the benefits of hiring adults with autism, thanks to early adopters like Walgreen Co.
In 2007, Walgreens opened a distribution center in Anderson, S.C., and piloted a program to employ workers with disabilities -- 33 percent of the nearly 300 workers at that time -- many of whom had autism. To accommodate workers with autism, managers are instructed to avoid metaphors and use direct instruction and outfit a break room with beanbag chairs and puzzles to calm workers with autism who may feel sensory overload from the loud, often frantic pace of a distribution center, Workforce magazine reported in 2012.
The Anderson center now employs more than 40 percent with disabilities, and Walgreen opened a similar facility in Connecticut in 2009.
Allen said Southeast Michigan will be successful when autism hiring expands beyond seeking highly skilled adults with autism and looks to match those in every category with jobs they can do.
"There's a perception now that those on the spectrum are these really smart, highly functional people," Allen said. "Not everyone has three degrees."
For a lot of people, taking a hike through a wooded park or wildlife sanctuary on a beautiful day is an invigorating, peaceful, even meditative experience. But that's not always the case for everyone.
“It can be scary to be in an unfamiliar environment," Jerry Berrier told me.
Berrier has been blind since birth. But he’s also a lifelong birder who loves the outdoors. Berrier birds by ear and records their calls and songs whenever he gets the chance.
Now Berrier can venture safely along a nature trail — on his own — more easily. That's because the state Department of Conservation and Recreation built a specially designed, accessible park very close to where he works at the Perkins School for the Blind.
“It is difficult for me as a person who’s totally blind to find places where I can spend an hour or two, or longer, all by myself if I choose to,” Berrier said while sitting on a bench on the Watertown Riverfront Park and Braille Trail along the Charles River.
"This is a place I’m looking forward to coming to often because it will give me the opportunity to do that," he said. "If I want to bring an audio recorder with me and record some of the sounds: I can do that. It’s a wonderful thing because it’s not all that easy to find opportunities like that for us.”
Berrier hopes the Braille trail in Watertown will inspire people of all abilities to engage more deeply with nature. He says spending time outside opens his world, which he says can sometimes feel small when you have a disability. And it's helped Berrier discover other ways to find and experience beauty, since he's not able to see it.
Accessible trails with wider, rope-guided paths like the one in Watertown have been cropping up around the state, thanks in part to Berrier.
“I've very committed to that and have been for a long time,” he said.
For the past eight years Berrier has been an “accessibility consultant” to the Massachusetts Audubon Society. With his help, the organization is currently upgrading its 12th "All Persons Trail” with multi-sensory elements at the Habitat Wildlife and Education Center in Belmont.
On a recent, sun-filled morning, Audubon staff and volunteers raked a walkway and measured distances. They’d been doing a lot of prepping to install nine stop posts for rope guides along a stretch of a half-mile loop.
Half a million people visit Mass Audubon sanctuaries a year. Education projects manager Lucy Gertz said her goal is to boost that number because connecting people with nature is the organization’s core mission.
“Instead of connecting people with nature you can almost insert the word ‘all’ and say ‘connecting all people with nature,'” Gertz said. “So we’re giving everyone an opportunity -- whether they use a mobility device, or they’re low vision or blind, or have development or cognitive challenges, whatever they need -- we hope they can enjoy time on this trail and learn about nature.”
The Audubon's All Persons Trails have gently graded graveled or paved paths that make it easier for people with wheelchairs or mobility issues to navigate. Some include interpretive signs in both English and braille describing local ecology and history. There are tactile maps and brochures, too. Berrier has been using his audio skills to record and engineer audio tours people can dial up on their smartphones.
One new audio tour Berrier produced for the Belmont trail describes the small plots of land in the sanctuary’s community garden, its solar array and the trees overhead.
Berrier is also one of the accessibility testers who have experience working with people who have a wide range of disabilities.
Habitat director Roger Wrubel says the testers provided useful, critical feedback on the audio tour’s script, the trail itself and the interpretive stops that would be most compelling.
“It’s really hard to sort of imagine what it’s like for somebody who has those handicaps,” Wrubel said as we made our way through the leaf-covered trail. “So actually having somebody here with those challenges gave us a lot of information on how to revise things and make it more accommodating for those people.”
For example, Wrubel's team added more benches so disabled visitors can take rests along the way. And he says, thanks to Berrier, there’s a moment on the audio tour that encourages visitors to feel the different tree barks and even wrap their arms around a trunk.
ADA Compliance, And Cost
Wrubel says this safer trail is attracting more elderly people from assisted living homes and families with strollers, too.
But making outdoor areas more accessible comes with challenges. Most importantly, Gertz says the trails must comply with the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA). Staff and volunteers have to be trained on the law, but she adds that there’s a cultural component as well. Not everyone understands the etiquette it might take to make people who rely on wheelchairs or service animals feel welcome.
Then, there’s the money.
“Cost is definitely a big obstacle,” she said. “Some trails are just not going to become ADA-compliant, and some will take more work if you’re crossing over wetlands or elevating low areas.”
In 2010 the organization received a $100,000 federal grant from the Institute for Museum and Library Sciences for its All Persons Trails Project. And Gertz’s team has created a free, 70-page “how-to” manual and video that's available online for other organizations hoping to design their own accessible trails.
The state-operated braille trail in Watertown cost $1.5 million and includes a beautifully crafted "sensory park" with an interactive instrument called the Braille Marimba. There are sculpture-like picnic tables, stone benches with smooth, polished surfaces and a rope guide with different shaped wooden blocks that indicate points of interest and plaques with information in braille.
Norman Orrall, chief of planning and engineering for the DCR, says making outdoor resources more available to more people is a priority for the Baker administration.
Orrall calls designing the braille trail — with help from the Perkins School — eye-opening.
“Most of the time we’re just thinking about a trail from point A to point B," Orrall said. "So I think this helped us all as designers to stop and listen to what’s going on around us, and to incorporate our other senses.”
Berrier is pleased with the way the braille trail in Watertown turned out. As we walked along a trail that runs parallel to the water we stopped at a granite pillar with some text. Berrier reached over and read about how the 20 dams built to power industry along the 80-mile-long river caused decades of pollution.
“The braille is good, the material it’s on feels pretty durable,” he offered as a critique.
Berrier hopes other people with disabilities, especially the young students where he works with nearby at Perkins, will come to the trail a lot.
One of them, Tom Pelletier, stopped to read a sign post during his stroll through the trail.
The 20-year-old told me he could do without the history and geology lessons. But Pelletier — who has partial sight due to a cortical visual impairment — was clearly taken by the nature around him.
“I can see the leaves in the water,” Pelletier described as he focused his eyes intently on the Charles.” I can see the water. I can see the trees.”
Jacob Augenstern, Pelletier’s therapeutic support person, stood a few feet away and said a trail like this can really make a difference.
“Independent motion is something that sighted people often take for granted,” Augenstern said. “Nature is for everybody, and everyone should be able to experience it.”
The Rebbe addresses a group of Paralympic athletes:
When someone has a physical weakness or lacking, it is no reason to be dejected; rather it is proof positive that the Creator has endowed him or her with special spiritual powers which enable him to overcome and succeed where the ordinary person cannot.
The term “handicapped” should not be used for anyone. To the contrary, he is someone special and exceptional by the Creator, with special powers above and beyond the capacity of an ordinary individual. They should therefore be called what they truly are: “exceptional.” This highlights the real and outstanding qualities which give them the ability to be a living example of joy and self-confidence. They express how every Jewish man and woman – regardless of their physical or bodily state – possesses a soul which is “an actual part of G-d above,” which overcomes any and every limitation.
Asperger people are not as simple as many non autistic people. When working with or meeting with someone (especially when you have only met with them for only a few hours or less) you should not come to conclusions so quickly.
A story to emphasis this point
One of the people I worked with in NY didn't show interest in having a counselor. I got the same reception One time I was working with him he called me a name, and another time while I was escorting him to a doctors appointment he worked to sneak past me and go home without me. I chose to just stay on working with him for the time being. That was a good move on my part because I saw he was going with the camp group he was in. I realized as long as we go somewhere that he likes he'll come and stay with me. I was right, and was able to help this boy better after realizing that point.
Autistic? More Companies Say Add It to Your Resume
When Sam Briefer,23, graduated from West Chester University of Pennsylvania last year, the job hunt began. At first it was slow going. He scored a few interviews, but was never called back. Then in March, shortly after connecting with Specialisterne—a Danish company whose U.S. arm works to develop the talent of autistic people—professional services firm EY (formerly Ernst & Young) offered Briefer a full-time position on its accounting team. He was thrilled. Not only did he have a job, but rather than treat his autism as a potential setback, as other employers had, EY approached it as a competitive advantage and tailored the onboarding process to fit his needs. On-the-job instructions were stripped of expressions or common conversation shortcuts, which can be hard for autistic people to understand. He also received a few hours per week of additional coaching on workplace interactions through the ARC of Philadelphia, a service provider for people with disabilities.
Six months in, the office setting has already helped him feel more comfortable in social settings. “It’s definitely pushing me to communicate with my team a lot, and breaking me out of my nervous social-anxiety shell,” he said. Briefer, along with three other employees, was hired as part of EY’s inaugural effort to recruit employees with autism for accounting positions. With the program’s launch—for now, it only operates in the firm’s Philadelphia office, but the company hopes to expand it to other cities in 2018—EY joins the growing ranks of private employers deliberately recruiting people with autism. In 2013, German software maker SAP said it wanted people with autism to make up 1% of its workforce—about 700 people—by 2020. And in April 2015, Microsoft announced a pilot program to hire people with autism at its headquarters in Redmond, Washington. Earlier this year, it expanded those efforts to the U.K.
These initiatives are designed to create opportunities and environments for individuals who typically struggle to find work. Autism spectrum disorder is often marked by an impaired ability to socialize and communicate—key skills for operating in a standard office environment. But that’s only part of it. The programs are also motivated by a real business need. People with high-functioning autism “often have very strong mathematical and technical abilities,” said Lori Golden, who oversees EY’s accessibility programs. People with autism, she said, can be “very detail-oriented; very good at pattern recognition.” The company’s four autistic employees hired through its new program work as accounting support associates and are responsible for finding ways to automate tasks, such as combing through log data from clients. Recently, these corporate efforts have gained relevance as Democratic presidential nominee Hillary Clinton has made increasing employment among autistic Americans a pillar of her campaign. In January, Clinton revealed a plan to expand employment options for people with autism through private-public partnership and by funding pilot programs that would give jobs to autistic adults. Her ideas on this subject are considered somewhat radical in that they’re aimed at helping autistic people, rather than curing them. In September, Clinton continued what disability advocates see as her unprecedented courtship of disabled voters when she called for an economy that’s more inclusive of all people with disabilities. Last year, 17.5% of people with a disability were employed, according to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, compared to 65% of those without a disability. The joblessness of adults with autism is harder to decipher, but a longitudinal 2012 study found that just 55% of adults with autism held paid employment in the six years after graduating high school. “One advocate after another has told me the same thing: ‘We don’t want pity. We want paychecks. We want the chance to contribute,'” Clinton said at a speech in Orlando, Florida.
Corporate programs such as EY’s are one sign that the “winds are shifting” when it comes to finding disabled people “meaningful work in the community,” said Paul Shattuck, director of the life course outcomes program at the A.J. Drexel Autism Institute. (A more integrated employment approach contrasts the sheltered workshop model that for decades employed disabled people in isolated settings.) Still, Shattuck has concerns, chiefly that companies are engaging in “cream skimming” by focusing their initiatives on high-functioning autism, not all disabilities. He understands the reasoning: As for-profit companies, businesses want to hire people who qualify for initiatives aimed at people with disabilitiesbut who also help contribute to the bottom line. “It’s a tricky situation,” he said. That complexity is not lost on EY’s Golden. While the firm does hire people with a wide range of disabilities, “organizations like ours have very few lower-skilled jobs,” she said. Because EY rents its office space, and thus doesn’t hire its own cafeteria and maintenance staff, the vast majority of positions require specialized education and skills. The autism program, then, is a rare opportunity to offer “really meaningful, well-compensated work [and career paths] to individuals who otherwise might have a hard time finding professional-level work,” she said. EY pays the program’s employees $50,000 per year, the same as similarly experienced employees outside the program. For his part, Briefer said EY’s approach to his autism reflects his own.In previous job interviews, he could tell employers viewed it as “an obstacle for me to get over.” But he considers it differently. “Once I put my mind to something, lots of ideas start shooting out of my head, and I’m able to come up with a creative idea.” So, he said, “I see it as a gift, too.”
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BUFORD, Ga. – A Georgia mother is celebrating Friday after learning that her son, who has Down syndrome, has been offered a spot in a 2017 Carter’s ad campaign, according to WXIA-TV.
The offer is especially sweet for mom Meagan Nash, who says the talent agency she hoped would help her son, Asher, get the job, declined to even send out his photos.
What bothered Megan Nash wasn’t that a talent agency turned down her 15-month-old son. It’s the reason they gave.
The agency told Nash it wouldn’t be submitting the boy’s pictures because they didn’t fit the casting criteria.
Nash was confused. Did the casting specifically say ‘no children with special needs?’ she asked the agent.
Well, no, but the agent just assumed the company wouldn’t want a child with special needs, she was told.
(CNN was able to verify the interactions after seeing the email exchanges).
Frustrated, Meagan posted Asher’s pictures on the Changing the Face of Beauty Facebook page, with a message about how national brands likely never realize that photos of special needs kids aren’t being submitted from casting calls.
“We aren’t giving up! This handsome boy is ready to show the world what #changingthefaceofbeauty is!” she wrote.
A popular page called “Kids With Down Syndrome” reposted her note and it has since been shared over 124,000 times.
“It’s important to feature people with special needs in advertisement for three reasons. The first reason is inclusion. People with disabilities want to be included amongst their peers in life in general and being seen in advertisement is a part of that,” Nash told CNN.
“The second reason, which is very near and dear to my heart, is acceptance. Without truly accepting my son and others with special needs, there can be no inclusion for them in the future.
“And the last reason is respect. Using people with special needs shows the world that these people have value and worth just like any typical person does.”
Shortly after Nash’s Facebook post went up, OshKosh B’Gosh, a subsidiary of Carter’s, contacted the family to set up a meeting with Asher.
“I don’t want [OshKosh] to use him because of this fuss we are making on the Internet. I want them to use him because they value him and see how much he could contribute to their advertisement” Nash said.
Our Way for the Deaf and Hard of Hearing was established in 1969 and addresses the social, religious, and education needs of Jewish deaf youth and adults in North America. Our Way is dedicated to including deaf children, teenagers, college students, singles, families, and the deaf blind in the full spectrum of Jewish life.
Services
Our Way enables Jews who are deaf or hard of hearing to participate in Jewish cultural and religious life through:
Deaf-friendly classes and lectures on topics such as Israel, prayer, and weekly Torah portion
Sign language publications and prayer charts
Shabbatonim (weekend retreats)
Family workshops
Job placement and support services
Holiday programs including Purim PowerPoint Megilla readings, challah bakes and holiday parties
The Jewish Deaf Learning Central offers “Torah in Sign Language” study sessions via Skype or vp (videophone)
Family Support
Our Way imparts vital information and referral services to the Jewish deaf and their families. Our Way:
Provides social opportunities for deaf or hard of hearing children and their families
Identifies appropriate yeshiva day school or private school placement for deaf students
Helps families access sign and oral interpreters
Sponsors events for families with hearing impaired children on halacha and the deaf
Keeps parents abreast of the latest innovations and technology in deaf education
Hearing Aid Gemach
Our Way runs a Hearing Aid Gemach (free lending society), where members may borrow hearing aids that their own audiologists and hearing aid dealers recommend for their specific hearing loss. The program is free of cost and hearing aids may be borrowed until no longer needed.
Sunday started the Jewish new year. I am announcing that this coming year their will be some new things I will be starting.
I am looking to start some support groups one for parents, and one for the disabled.
I have some big events I will be starting which hopefully will get the Jewish community thinking more about disabilities.
I am also hoping to do many speaking engagements speaking about my life, engaging disabled people in the community, disabilities in Judaism, and Disabilities in the Israeli defense force (contact me if interested).
Also I am looking at creating new content on the blog to help better educate people on all things relating to disabilities.
This was the voice I heard when I picked up our home phone one day in April.
“One second,” I said, trying to sound natural, as if people like Jay Leno called our house all the time. I banged on Aidan’s door and whisper-shouted, “It’s Jay Leno!”
The call was not entirely out of the blue. We had met Mr. Leno the previous night for 10 minutes right before his performance in Fayetteville, N.C., about an hour from where we live. Bill Kirby, a writer for The Fayetteville Observer, had sneaked in my 16-year-old son, Aidan, to meet him when he heard about Aidan’s project. Over the last year, Aidan had written letters to successful dyslexics asking if they had any advice for a dyslexic high school student like him. He had written to Jay Leno three times.
“Did I answer?” Mr. Leno had asked him.
“No, but that’s O.K.,” Aidan had said.
Dyslexia, a neurological difference that impairs the ability to read, often greatly impairs performance in school.
Aidan had started the project in a moment of despair right after getting back his spring grades in ninth grade. They were disappointing. They didn’t reflect how hard he had worked. We were standing in his room at the time. I had pointed to a poster he had tacked up over his desk of successful adults who have dyslexia. “I wonder how they made it?” I had said.
And so, over the last year, he had written to 100 successful dyslexics. Ten responded. Dr. Delos Cosgrove, a surgeon and chief executive of the Cleveland Clinic, was the first. He started his letter, “Dyslexia is an advantage in the fact that it makes us think more creatively.”
The second person to write back, the economist Diane Swonk, said among other things, “Success is the process of learning from failures, and I had more learning experiences than many.”
The sculptor Thomas Sayre said, “It appears that most dyslexics are improvisers. We have to be.”
Not one letter denied the challenges that come with having a significant learning difference. Instead, each letter provided the perspective that can only be gained over time. They all said, in their own ways, “Kid, you’re going to be O.K.”
My son pinned their letters up. He looked at these letters when preparing for a test or writing a paper or recovering from a bad grade. It would be nice to say that they provided the perfect antidote. They certainly did help, as did his academic accommodations. But midway through the year, his teachers called a meeting to see if anything more could be done.
Aidan’s principal, David Schwenker, wondered aloud whether taking one less class each semester might be the answer. “It would mean graduating one year later,” he said, “but then you could stay in honors classes.” Aidan was crestfallen.
It was fortuitous that the writer John Irving’s letter arrived around then. In it, Mr. Irving wrote, “You need to give yourself more time; it takes you longer to do things than it takes your friends. So what? If you do it well?” It helped to know that Mr. Irving, himself, had taken an extra year to finish high school. He graduated in 1961, when accommodations for disabilities were far less common. Aidan decided to do the same.
We are each born with different strengths and weaknesses, and learning to live with these is part of every life. What is regrettable is that often, far too early, the path some of us choose is shaped more by what we can’t do than what we can.
But back to Jay Leno.
By phone, he told Aidan many stories, including one in which his high school guidance counselor had recommended that he consider the training program at McDonald’s. Mr. Leno paused and chuckled. He obviously hadn’t listened to the guidance counselor. In fact, he went on to say, years later, he had invited this very guidance counselor to “The Tonight Show,” where he introduced him and they both laughed about that misguided advice.
The lesson Mr. Leno was trying to impart, I think, is that at the end of the day, Aidan is the one in the driver’s seat of his life. He can choose to follow or ignore any guidance offered. Mr. Leno also shared that the path he chose was not always easy — for a period early in his career, he slept in an alley in New York City at 44th Street and Ninth Avenue — while doing standup five or six nights a week for little pay.
Over the course of this past year, through conversations like this one and the letters he received, Aidan didn’t discover the secret to success for dyslexics. If anything, he discovered that there was no secret — except persistence, humor, improvisation and grit.
Was the project a waste of time? Far from it. Had he not had dyslexia and been in distress, Aidan would never have reached out for advice. He would never have connected with Mr. Leno or others who offered valuable insights, including the poet Philip Schultz and the explorer Ann Bancroft. He would not have written a book about this experience. And that book is opening doors he could never have imagined.
Sunday, September 4, 2016
Photo of F.S.U. Football Star Sitting With Boy Eating Alone at School Charms Internet
Travis Rudolph, a star football player at Florida State University in Tallahassee, is no stranger to the spotlight. He is famous for his award-winning athleticism, catching high and running far as a wide receiver.
But it was Mr. Rudolph’s action off the football field that earned him national attention this week when, visiting a local school on a good-will visit with his teammates on Tuesday, he made a simple gesture.
He sat down at a lunch table.
In a moment captured on camera and shared widely on social media, Mr. Rudolph saw a boy sitting alone in the cafeteria at Montford Middle School.
“So I asked him could I sit down and have lunch with him,” Mr. Rudolph said in an interview with “Fox and Friends” on Thursday. “And he said, ‘Sure why not?’ ”
The boy introduced himself. His name was Bo Paske. He was a sixth grader.
“And the conversation went from there,” Mr. Rudolph said.
Although Mr. Rudolph, 21, did not know it at the time, Bo has autism and often eats lunch by himself, according to the boy’s mother, Leah Paske, who wrote about the moment and published the photograph on Facebook on Tuesday. Since then, the image of the football star eating pizza while seated opposite Bo has became an example of how a small act of kindness can go big.
Mr. Rudolph, Bo and Ms. Paske have since been inundated with requests for interviews with national media organizations, appearing on news programs and in newspapers. Ms. Paske’s post has been shared more than 13,000 times, and the photograph has been circulating on Twitter, including on the account of Autism Speaks, an advocacy and support organization, from where it was retweeted nearly 600 times.
“I did not even recognize that it will be this big,” Mr. Rudolph told the Fox show as Bo sat next to him and his mother sat on the other side of her son. “Everybody is the same, and one man can make a difference.”
Efforts to reach Mr. Rudolph through a family member were unsuccessful on Thursday. Ms. Paske did not immediately return emails and phone calls seeking comment.
The story also shed light on some of the challenges that face families coping with relatives who have autism spectrum disorder, which the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention defines as a group of developmental disabilities that can cause social, communication and behavioral challenges in about one in 68 children.
Ms. Paske said in her Facebook post that she was sometimes “grateful” that her son had the condition.
“That may sound like a terrible thing to say, but in some ways I think, I hope, it shields him,” she wrote. “He doesn’t seem to notice when people stare at him when he flaps his hands. He doesn’t seem to notice that he doesn’t get invited to birthday parties anymore. And he doesn’t seem to mind if he eats lunch alone.”
She said that she asks him questions about his school experience every day.
“ ‘Was there a time today you felt sad?’ ‘Who did you eat lunch with today?’ Sometimes the answer is a classmate, but most days it’s nobody. Those are the days I feel sad for him, but he doesn’t seem to mind. He is a super sweet child, who always has a smile and hug for everyone he meets.”
She said that a friend of hers was at the school on the day that Mr. Rudolph and his teammates visited.
“I am not sure what exactly made this incredibly kind man share a lunch table with my son, but I’m happy to say that it will not soon be forgotten,” Ms. Paske said on Facebook. “This is one day I didn’t have to worry if my sweet boy ate lunch alone, because he sat across from someone who is a hero in many eyes.”
During the interview on Thursday, Ms. Paske recounted how anxious she had been as Bo attended middle school. As she spoke, Bo occasionally looked up at her and reached over to touch her arm whenever he saw that she was distressed.
Bo said that it was “amazing” that Mr. Rudolph had chosen to sit down with him, adding that the player had even signed his lunchbox.
Asked how the encounter had made him feel, Bo said, “It was kind of like me sitting on a rainbow.”
Microsoft Previews Office Accessibility Enhancements
New features include improved Editor functionality that assists users with dyslexia, a high-contrast mode in Excel and an expanded Accessibility Checker.
Microsoft is working on new features that make it easier for people with dyslexia and the visually impaired get work done in its Office productivity software suite.
Among the new capabilities that the software giant is releasing this quarter across its Office ecosystem is an improved Editor tool for Word. Announced last month, Editor tackles writing flaws like wordiness, redundancy and other issues that typically slip by the software's existing spelling and grammar tools and diminish the quality of one's writing.
According to John Jendrezak, accessibility lead and partner director of program management of Microsoft Office Engineering, early users with dyslexia are already reporting an improvement in writing with Word. The company has more tweaks in the works, he added.
"More Editor enhancements are coming in the next few months for Word on PCs—all inspired by the needs of people with dyslexia and beneficial for everybody. In particular, Editor will make it easier to choose between suggested spellings for a misspelled word. Synonyms or definitions will be shown alongside suggestions and it will be possible to have both read aloud," wrote Jendrezak in a blog post.
In Excel Online, users with visual impairments will be able to interact with their spreadsheets with less eyestrain on Windows PCs with high-contrast mode enabled. The browser-based software now boasts more visible cell-selection outlines and charts that adhere to a high-contrast theme's colors, among other improvements.
SharePoint Online has been updated to work better with Narrator, Windows 10's built-in screen reader. The SharePoint home page features headings that aid navigation and new "search as you type" capabilities that integrate search results into the screen reader experience. SharePoint Document Libraries now can audibly report on actions like file uploads and task confirmations using Narrator.
Narrator isn't the sole focus of Microsoft's efforts to improve Office text-to-speech capabilities. In May, the company announced that it was also working on enhancing how its Office 365 apps for iOS and Android work with the assistive technologies found in those mobile operating systems, namely VoiceOver and TalkBack.
Microsoft's Accessibility Checker for Office, under the Check for Issues option in Office apps (Word, Excel and PowerPoint) for Windows, has made its way to the Mac and the Sway app. The company plans to extend the feature to the web-based versions of Word, Excel and PowerPoint as well as Outlook for Windows and Mac, announced Jendrezak.
Earlier this year, Microsoft made new executive appointments in a renewed accessibility push that affects it entire product and services slate.
On Jan. 20, the company announced it had named Jenny Lay-Flurrie, chair of the Disability Employee Resource Group at Microsoft, as its new chief accessibility officer. She replaced Rob Sinclair, who went on to head the Microsoft Windows and Devices Group's accessibility initiatives. Lay-Flurrie reports to Susan Hauser, corporate vice president of Microsoft's new Business and Corporate Responsibility unit, also established in January